
I’m a big fan of social media: I enjoy jumping on Facebook or twitter and seeing pictures of friends that don’t live nearby or reading the hilarious things my friends post. I don’t play games on Facebook; I’m not interested in planting a virtual farm and the whole “poke” thing is just odd. I also don’t care for “life is horrible” type posts or political mumbo-jumbo, but it’s easy enough to skip over those things when I see them.
I do need to work on not letting the opinions people like to post or tweet affect me. Everyone has an opinion- on everything, and if you’re a part of social media, you’re going to hear them- on a regular basis.
It’s how you choose to let people’s opinions affect you that really matters.
Here are a few actual opinion posts from Facebook:
“Anyone who feeds their children McDonald’s should have their parent card revoked”
“No one should shop at a Buckle store, under any circumstance- ever!”
“It drives me nuts when people use the expression “It is what it is!” what does that even mean?”
Here’s the thing-
I know what I like in life; and eating McDonald’s French fries, buying my jeans at Buckle and shopping for shoes at Target are a few of those things. If I never go into a Target again because I see a friend of mine tweet that you should “never buy your clothes where you buy your milk” well then, I might miss out on some really cute shoes. My Facebook friend might not like what Buckle sells- but if I’m confident that I make their jeans look good… well that’s all that really matters (and it’s one of a very few places that have jeans long enough for me).
Now I’m not saying that we should all keep our opinions to ourselves – Lord knows I’ve definitely got my own: I don’t understand people who think “Napoleon Dynamite” is funny and I could never get behind the whole nerd glasses trend. In fact a friend of mine recently tweeted “How did nerd glasses become a fashion trend? What’s next- unnecessary hearing aids?”
What I am doing is encouraging you to not let other people’s opinions affect the person that you are. God made you unique- He gave you your personality, style, sense of humor and attitude for a reason. Don’t let someone’s 140 character tweet change that about you.
“The fear of human opinion disables; trusting in God protects you from that.” Proverbs 29:25
Don’t let someone’s opinion change you into someone you’re not.
Be confident in who you are – In who God made you to be.
Be yourself.
And keep the hilarious tweets and Facebook pics coming. Just know that you’re kids will never be quite as cute as mine.
Hey- it is what it is!